~* NiCe QuOtEs *~

Missed Quoting ! Here I Am ! For 2007 ~

2007-07-21T12:37:00.000+08:00

1st post of 2007 haha!
Enjoy ~

"Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship.
It's not about how much love you have in the beginning
but how much love you build till the end."

Nice ?

dis may seems nothin.. but its impt to me..

2005-11-04T18:53:00.000+08:00

althou i said it many times.. i shall say it again.. de meaning of this quote is impt.. all of us should learn it man.. esp to my cuzzie Pris aka Babe.. i hope u learn dis well..

Never Love A Love That Hurts
Never Hurt A Love That Loves

it simply means.. if someone hurts u.. he's not de 1 u should love.. n if someone reali loves u.. pls dun hurt him.. simple ?? haha..

gd luck to all in love.. n still learnin how to love..

~* Love *~

2005-10-12T20:13:00.000+08:00

I'm not supposed to love you
I'm not supposed to care
I'm not supposed to live my life wishing you were there
I'm not supposed to wonder where you are or what you do
I'm sorry I can't help myself
Coz I'm in LOVE with you !!

Li.Bu.Kai.Ta

2005-10-07T00:41:00.000+08:00

this 4 words formed a song title.. dis song sang by Landy Wen Lan.. n the chinese title means can nv leave him..

thus i thot of this..

Life wifout you..
I can never survive on..

Being with you is all i wanna do..
U haf always been my pillar of strength..

Kinda miss the time when we were still together..
Althou you are no longer wif me..
I still wish you might come back..

Till the end of time i will wait..
Always loving u..

coz i can never leave u..

missin u..

2005-09-17T01:37:00.000+08:00

Missing you..
In the silence of the nite..
Sweet memories of u n me..
Swimming in thots of u..
I reali wish u r happy..
Now and forever u'll be in my heart..
God do bless the 1 in my heart forever pls..

U'll be the 1 i love most.. Forever..

above is especially dedicated to ppl who r missin their special someone..
:)

edited frm a sad guy's words..

2005-09-10T23:57:00.000+08:00

Erasing u from my life wun remove u from my past.
Coz u're a memory dat's gonna last.

frm pris mei.. n her broken angmoh.. (edited by me) :X

2005-08-25T22:26:00.000+08:00

Love is like a knife.
It pierce thru ur heart.
And the pain that comes with the pulling out is beyond description.
Close to death but yet u survive.
It also makes you stronger and wiser.
It's a good servant but a bad master.

found this frm 1 of my old blog..

2005-08-10T17:58:00.000+08:00

~* NeVeR LoVe a LoVe dAt hUrTs * nEvEr hUrT a LoVe daT LoVes *~

frm meaningful posters..

2005-08-07T01:48:00.000+08:00

You're the dawn of everyday to me,
the hope that sees me thru,
the light that guides the way for me,
the love that's always true.

hmmmmm smiles

2005-06-27T04:03:00.000+08:00

When 1 door closed, another 1 opened.
It's up to you to choose.
To walk to the opened door,
or sitting outside a closed 1.

specially for my adrian dar..
thks for showing me how true dis can be..
if i can manage to stop lookin at my closed door..
muahahhaaa :X
lalalalaalalaaa *smiles*

many many quotes !!

2005-06-03T17:55:00.000+08:00

Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.

Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.

Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.

The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.

Don't let the past hold you back; you're missing the good stuff.

Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while, you might miss it.

A best friend is like a four leaf clover: hard to find and lucky to have.

If you think that the world means nothing, think again. You might mean the world to someone else.

When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there.

Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.

Don't frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.

What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?

Most people walk in and out of you life. But only friends leave footprints in your heart.

frm jess mei's frnster..

2005-05-23T17:48:00.000+08:00

i thank god he sent you to me, for you and i were meant to be. we have a bond too strong to break, we have a love no one can take. in you, i have found a love so true, my heart is filled with love for you.

every time i see you, my heart skips a beat, you make my life whole, you make my life complete. my love for you grows more with each passing day, the thought of your gorgeous face takes my breath away. those brown eyes fill my soul with happiness,

those luscious lips i love to kiss. the day when i become your wife, will be the happiest day of my life. even thinking of that day makes me smile,

i can't wait till i walk down that aisle. i dream of that day when we'll both say, "i do" for always and forever... i will love you.

finally back.. =) hope my comp behaves now..

2005-05-23T10:49:00.000+08:00

wooooo :D
mish my blog lolx
finally back..

saw frm someone's frenster..

2005-05-12T13:34:00.000+08:00

Don't go for looks; they can deceive.
Dont go for wealth; even that fades away.
Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
Find the one that makes your heart smile. =)

still love u..

2005-05-08T02:48:00.000+08:00

TiMe hAs cHaNgEd My LiFe bUt nOt My LoViNg hEaRt..
iT rEmAiNs dE sAmE iN LoViNg yOu..
oNi hAs pLaCe fOr LoViNg yOu..
TiMe mAy hAvE cHaNgEd yOuR LoVe fOr Me..
yOuR hEaRt mAy nO LoNgEr LoVe mE..
iT WiLL oSo nOt cHaNgE My LoVe fOR yOu..

sTiLL LoViN u.. DeDi tO yA oN DiS sAd dAe..

2005-05-04T00:00:00.000+08:00

dedi to my ex whom i love most..

Tryin to forget someone i love..
Is like tryin to remember someone i never knew..

no matter wad.. u will always be the one i loved most..
be it 1yr down the road.. 10yrs down the road..
you'll forever be my nice memories..
accompanying me thru life..
thots of u gave me happiness..
thou u brought me sadness n tears..
i still love u..

wishin us both all the best in life..
hopin myself can lead a better life like u..
waitin for my true love.. =)

wad's love ??

2005-05-02T00:57:00.000+08:00

love is like bein in heaven but hurts like u're in hell..

frm a drama..

2005-04-29T13:53:00.000+08:00

you thought you've already forgotten everything..
but suddenly you realized you never walked out at all..

thks to malted candy who tagged..

2005-04-25T23:32:00.000+08:00

wishing i could sleep for eternity,
all away frm these anxieties,
wounded and weary,
i'm locked in ur contrary

esp dedicated to him..

2005-04-22T00:00:00.000+08:00

("v")
aLL i dO eAcH NiTe iS pRaY
HoPiNg tO bE a pArT oF yOu AgAiN sOmE dAe
("v")

a fren's quit msg..

2005-03-21T00:49:00.000+08:00

Far in distance,
but near at heart.
You'll always be the "OnE" in my heart.

Lyrics : Shi Wen Bin - Wang Bu Liao

2005-03-07T10:43:00.000+08:00

忘不了

翻开一本旧日记
记载着一段旧恋情
每段都那么的甜蜜
往事历历在这里
曾看过多少的风雨
曾说过要到哪里去
曾做过觉得傻的事
爱过在这城市里

昨晚下了一场雨
让我忽然梦里见到你
躲在某个地方哭泣
好想紧紧抱着你
有一次从朋友口中听到你消息
我的心都在发抖
你是否孤身一人
我不停追问

分手两年后我还是想着你
多久没有见过你
现在你住在哪里
只怕有一天我们都会老去
只想留一点回忆能够让我们依靠

我在一个咖啡店
透过玻璃窗往外望
你的人影无所不在
无心无魂的想你

为什么人总要等到失去才珍惜
我来不及想告诉你
要永远不分离

sori so long nv blog.. =)

2005-02-27T02:19:00.000+08:00

In the arithmetic of LOVE..
1+1 = everything
( coz i haf u beside me i'm never alone )
2-1 = nothing
( coz if i lost u so wad if i won the world )
LOVE is never complete wifout YOU..

Happy Vdae To All !! =)

2005-02-14T01:00:00.000+08:00

Recipe For A Happy Marriage

Ingredients:

1 can of ROMANCE
2 fruits of LOVE
2 cups of FAITH
1 cup of UNDERSTANDING
1 cup of CONFIDENCE
1/2 teaspoon of JEALOUSY
1 tablespoon of HOPE
some HUMOUR to taste

Method:

Open the can of ROMANCE and spoon out the contents.Cut the fruits of LOVE and put them in the cup of CONFIDENCE to prevent discolouration.Pour in FAITH and UNDERSTANDING and put the mixture in a Matrimonial mixing bowl.Season with spices of JEALOUSY and a spoonful of HUMOUR.Add HOPE and arrange attractively on the serving dish of Life.Store at room temperature.The dish will be sweetened when served.

10 Rules For A Happy Marriage

1. Never both angry at the same time.
2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
3. If someone has to win in an argument, let it be your mate.
4. If you have to criticise, do it lovingly.
5. Never bring up mistakes of the past.
6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
8. Say at least 1 compliment each day.
9. Admit to your mistakes and ask for forgiveness.
10. It takes 2 to make a quarrel and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking.

7th dae of breakin up..

2005-02-11T22:51:00.000+08:00

thou dis is not any love quote..
it's juz lyrics frm a chinese song..
but i found the lyrics beri nice..
sound kinda sad but i could feel it..
so juz wanna share wif u all..
hope u guys like it..

wanted to noe how r u recently..
r things still de same as before ??
mostly silence..
feel like giving u a call to ask how have u been..
but was afraid ur voice will bring back sadness..
de 7th dae of our breakup seems like forever..
de feelin of missin u..
grows stronger everydae..
de 7th dae of our breakup seems like forever..
everytime i close my eyes..
u'r rite infront of me..
feel like havin ur hands in mine..
startin all over again..
but i noe there's too much impossibilities..
sometimes breakup isn't abt whose faults..
i can oni quietly bear wif the heartache..

serene baby's away msg.. super sweet worz..

2005-02-04T08:16:00.000+08:00

I don't want diamonds or the world...
all I want is for you to call me your gUrL!

pris mei's..

2005-02-02T03:44:00.000+08:00

ur smiles captive my heart..
being by ur side brighten my day..
helping the helpless me melts my heart..
and seeing u when i wake up is the best thing i could ever want..

pris mei's

2005-01-22T10:37:00.000+08:00

dont say u love me when u dont even show u care.. because in the end u will find me gone.. not because i dont love u.. but bcuz someone better has won my heart while u were idling away.

22nd..

2005-01-22T01:54:00.000+08:00

a special date.. suddenly i was reminded of this special person..
someone who once was beri impt to me..

S, i am missin u.. hope u r gettin along fine..

wif love,
S

here's somethin for u..

LoVe OnCe & OnLy OnE..
LoVe YoU & OnLy YoU..

mine..

2005-01-22T01:01:00.000+08:00

NeVeR WaStE aN oPpOrTuNiTy tO sAy [ I LoVe YoU ] tO sOmEoNe YoU rEaLLy LoVe cOz iT's nOt eVeRyDaE YoU mEeT a PeRsOn wHo HaS tHe MaGiC tO LeT YoU FaLL iN LoVe WiF

mine..

2005-01-18T16:06:00.000+08:00

It takes only a minute to know someone,
an hour to understand someone,
a day to love someone.
But it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

mine..

2005-01-15T19:37:00.000+08:00

If you wait for me,
Then I'll come for you.
Although I've travelled far,
I always hold a place for you In my heart.
If you think of me,
If you miss me once in a while,
Then I'll return to you.
I'll return and fill that space in your heart.

pris mei's..

2005-01-15T16:07:00.000+08:00

why do these tears of mine falls for someone who will never be mine.. the harder i try, the more tears flows. yet.. u'll nv understand the pain cuz u no long exist in this life we once shared.

mine..

2005-01-15T16:02:00.000+08:00

Commitments is a matter of Responsibilities not a matter of Promises..

mine..

2005-01-14T18:36:00.000+08:00

~* treasure everyone who walks into your life coz you never know when they will walk out of your life *~

mine..

2005-01-13T22:12:00.000+08:00

FaTe bRiNgS PeOpLe tOgEtHeR AnD dEsTiNy dEtErMiNeS wHeThEr tHeY aRe MeAnT fOr eAcH oThEr..

a sad one frm pris mei..

2005-01-08T06:22:00.000+08:00

u r gone..
completely frm my life.
yet a part of me is longing..
longing for u to come back to my side

mine..

2005-01-07T11:07:00.000+08:00

[ aLL i dO eAcH NiTe iS PrAy ~ HoPiN tO bE a PaRt oF U AgAiN sOmEdAe ~ ]

mine..

2005-01-06T04:16:00.000+08:00

HaVe u eVeR LoVeD a pErSoN sO mUcH iT mAkEs u cRy ??
HaVe u eVeR tRiEd tO FiNd dE wOrDs bUt tHeY dUn sEeM tO cOmE oUt RiTe ??

sweetie's channel topic..

2005-01-05T10:34:00.000+08:00

attaining immortality jus meant that i am given an eternity of a lifetime to love you

frm mei to lil cutie.. wif love.. =)

2005-01-05T10:16:00.000+08:00

falling in love means risking my heart..
but if i have never risk my heart,
i wouldnt have found true love n happiness in your arms..

mine..

2005-01-05T01:03:00.000+08:00

words cannot express the way i feel towards you..
just like why i can't explain why the sky is blue..
but i know my heart is true when i say..
I LOVE YOU..

mine..

2005-01-04T02:22:00.000+08:00

** one sad thing in life is when u meet someone who means alot to u,
oni to find out in de end dat it was never meant to be and u juz haf to let go **

mine..

2005-01-02T16:55:00.000+08:00

FaTe cAn dEtErMiNeS WhO cOmEs iNtO OuR LiVeS...
BuT iT's ThE hEaRt DaT dEtErMiNeS WhO sTaYs...

mine..

2005-01-02T01:32:00.000+08:00

x-X-x i LiKe U nOt oNi fOr wHo U r ~ iT's hOw U mAdE mE fEeL wHeN i'M WiF U ~ x-X-x

Happy New Year To All Friends..

2005-01-01T04:25:00.000+08:00

share dis 2 fav quotes of mine..

~* LoVe LiVeS & LoVe DiEs ~ LoVe FaDeS EvEn iF OnE tRiEs *~
~* luv once & oni 1 ~ luv U & oni U *~

From Jamie Gugu's Bloggie

2004-12-31T13:49:00.000+08:00

Love is born wif a smile..
Grows wif a kiss..
Dies wif a tear..

From Keith's frenster acct

2004-12-29T03:59:00.000+08:00

Never Love A Love That Hurts
Never Hurt A Love That Loves

I Love You Not Becoz I Need You
But
I Need You Becoz I Love You

When I Cry I See You In My Tears
But I Clean My Tears So No One Can See You

frm a bt site.. someone's siggy..

2004-12-28T23:22:00.000+08:00

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return;
But what is most painful is to love someone and never finding the courage to let the person know how you feel.

frm xh's fren's frenster acct

2004-12-26T06:36:00.000+08:00

loving you has become part of my life..
missing you has become a habit of mine..
needing you more as each day goes by..

frm pris mei's bloggie.. meaningful..

2004-12-23T16:17:00.000+08:00

If you see me walking the road with someone else,
It's not because I like his accompany...
Its because you're not brave enough to walk beside me...

If you hear me talking about him all the time,
Its not because he pleases me..
Its because you're too deaf to hear my heartbeat..

If you feel me falling with someone new,
Its not because I love him..
But because you're not there to catch me fall..

If you feel lost,
I too am nowhere,
I too don't know where the road is going..

Are we gonna cross each other's path?
Or just completely turn around?

Will we just let go of what we had?
Or go to the place where love is bound?

Don't let me walk with him,It's you I want to walk with..
Don't let me talk of him,it's you I want to talk with..
Don't let me fall for him,It's you I want to fall in love with..

a poem i wrote myself..

2004-12-23T15:28:00.000+08:00

i wanna fly..
fly to the heaven in my eyes..
a place wif no worries..
wif oni u by my side..

can we reali be ?
juz de way we are ?
can u juz hold me close..
like its the last dae we could do so..

you reali like me ?
dun tell me u reali do..
show me..
u cared too..

i dun need any promises..
i dun insist on a future..
i juz wan u to be happy..
as happy as u can be..

our paradise..
is there reali such a place ??
where we can grow old together..
juz u n me..

is there forever ??
no i dun tink so..
dun tell me there is..
prove it to me baby..

can there be no hurt ?
will there be faith n trust ?
can we juz hold our hands..
n walk together till de end..

quote frm pris mei

2004-12-23T15:26:00.000+08:00

pris: "if you see me walking the road beside someone else, its not because i like his company, its because u r not brave to walk beside me"

saw frm a t-shirt in a shop in j8

2004-12-18T15:19:00.000+08:00

Relationship..
Is something by Choice
Not something by Chance

frm sha dan..

2004-12-15T22:43:00.000+08:00

i wouldnt walk away unless u tell me to
but never walk away cos i dont want u to

frm jess mei's bloggie skin..

2004-12-15T01:05:00.000+08:00

i'm not supposed to love you
i'm not supposed to care
i'm not supposd to live my life
wishing you were there

i'm not supposed to wonder
where you are or what you do
i'm sorry i can't help myself
cause i'm in love with you

meaningful..

2004-12-14T06:35:00.000+08:00

How to trust someone i've never seen before..

How not to trust the one i have feelings for..

frm muiz's bloggie..

2004-12-14T06:09:00.000+08:00

too often we dun realise wat we haf until it's gone
too often we r too late to say i'm sorri, i was wrong
sometimes it seems we hurt e ones we hold dearest to our hearts n we allow useless stuff to tear our lives apart
for too many times we let unimportant thingy get in our mind
by den it's usually too late to see wad made us blind
so be sure to let e people u noe
how much they means to u
take ur time to say e words
be sure tat u appreciate everythingy u've got n be thankful for e little thingy in life tat means a lot

boiboi's # topic..

2004-12-14T05:49:00.000+08:00

dis is a meaningful one althou ralf dun agree.. lolzz..

If the only possible way to be with u is in my dreams, then i will remain asleep till the feelings fade away..

mia...

2004-12-13T03:00:00.000+08:00

sori for bein mia for so long..
here's a lovely quote..

You can fall from the sky or fall from the tree..
But the best place to fall is in love with me..

My Sassy Girl - 10 Rules

2004-12-03T10:22:00.000+08:00

1) Don't expect her to be gentle.

2) Don't let her drink more than 3 glasses of alcohol, she'll be drunk and beat someone up.

3) At a cafe, drink coffee instead of coke or orange juice.

4) If she hits you, act like it hurts. If it hurts, act like it doesn't.

5) On your 100th day anniversary, give her a rose during her class time. She'll like it a lot.

6) You must learn fencing and squash.

7) Be prepared to go to prison sometimes.

8) If she says she'll kill you, don't take it lightly, you'll feel better.

9) Exchange shoes with her when her feet hurts.

10) She likes to write, encourage her.

Love Quotes..

2004-12-03T10:12:00.000+08:00

"With love all things are possible. Love gives the heart, the mind, and soul wings to fly and believe in miracles. The inspiration and power to make those dreams come true."

"Time is fleeting, yet when you are with someone you truly love, time does not matter."

"To love is not to look at one another, But to look together in the same direction"

"Saving your love never gains any interest"

"Love's pure silver flame gives each innermost spirit invisible warmth."

"When we feel love and kindness toward others, it not only makes others feel loved and cared for, but it helps us also to develop inner happiness and peace."

"To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage."

"In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities."

"Neither a lofty degree of intelligence nor imagination nor both together go to the making of genius. Love, love, love, that is the soul of genius."

"The more I think about it, the more I realize there is nothing more artistic that to love others"

"If could reach up and hold a star for everytime you made me smile, I would have the whole evening sky in the palm of my hand."

"Being with you is like walking on a very clear morning- definitely the sensation of belonging there."

"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart."

"Love is when you look into someone's eyes and suddenly you see all inside their heart and soul and you both know it."

"After all these years, I see that I was mistaken about Eve in the beginning; it is better to live outside the Garden with her than inside it without her."

"The moment you have in your heart this extraordinary thing called love and feel the depth, the delight, the ecstasy of it, you will discover that for you the world is transformed."

"Love is a second life; it grows into the soul, warms every vein, and beats in every pulse."

"My love for you is a journey, starting at forever, and ending at never."

"Love cures people-both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it."

"Love is the greatest refreshment in life"

"Where there is great love, there are always miracles"

"I have found the one whom my soul loves."

"Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible -- it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could."

"The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return"

"It is only through the mysterious equations of love that any logic can be found."

"Where there is love there is no question"

"Love is the water and breath of life. Drink to fill your heart, breath to fill your soul."

things for both genders to keep in mind..

2004-12-03T10:08:00.000+08:00

Things for BOTH genders to keep in mind

When some advise that if you do all the big things, you have no need to do the little things.....
it's not so. Doing the big and little things are an expression of love, caring and respect for one another. When it doubt, do them both!

NEVER use sex as a weapon. You not only create more problems, but you are depriving yourself as well. The rule of never go to bed angry.....okay.....sounds good but, staying up all night to solve the problem isn't always a good idea. Call a truce, get some sleep, after a goodnight's sleep, most likely you'll see a different view, understand better the other's view, or be able to work out whatever the problem is a lot better with time to think.

Respect each other's right to privacy, time and space. Too much togetherness can create problems as well. The best advice anyone can give, is love, appreciate and respect each other and the differences between men and women. Don't sweat the small stuff. Take care of each other and be yourselves.

wad woman should noe abt man

2004-12-03T10:04:00.000+08:00

What women should know about men

Department stores and malls were designed so that when you want to look at bed linen, shower curtains or handbags, there are always some speakers, tires, power tools or sporting equipment nearby.

It's an evolutionary thing. Men hunt and fix things. Women gather. Men just want to go out, kill it, or fix it, and bring it back. Why spend hours and hours looking at things they have no intention of killing? er... Buying? Let him look at the power tools or whatever, both of you will be a lot happier.

Don't make him hold your purse in the mall. Besides, men know nothing of accessorizing, and it would clash with whatever they are wearing.

He heard you the first time. Don't nag or repeat yourself incessantly.

Looking at other women isn't a bad thing. If he doesn't look at an attractive female, something is wrong with him or he's dead. That's when you need to worry. It isn't like we don't look at attractive men, we're just better at being subtle about it. so hope man can learn to be subtle.

Men offer solutions to problems in an effort to help. They do this so that they can frustrate us. They enjoy it. Kind of a retaliatory thing because they don't understand a woman's need for talking.

Ask a man out. Spread the rejection evenly.

There is nothing wrong with being a strong, intelligent, independent, free thinking woman, but allow a man to treat you like a lady with respect, spoil you and open doors for you. It doesn't make you less of a woman.

Never tell a man you love him unless you really do. They have hearts too, and even if they don't show it, their hearts can be broken so very easily.

Men withdraw to think when they have problems, this is not ignoring you. They like to "hide" in a cave and think things through. He'll come out when he's ready to talk, or not talk, respect that.

The arms and heart of a man who deeply,and passionately loves you is the best place to be.

A man's eyes can melt your heart.

Appreciate men. They need to be needed and admired.

Men can be truly artistic and show great passion and depth of emotion in art. Think about it, many of the great masters in art are MALE, composers of classical music as well. This is not slighting the many women artists there are, but too many times women complain men aren't passionate or creative or show emotion.

They have this wonderful place on their shoulder and neck just made for your head to rest on.

Men are the most wonderful, charming, loving, romantic, passionate, giving people on earth if treated right, respected, needed, admired and handled with care. They provide a lifetime of happiness.

wad man should noe abt woman

2004-12-03T09:33:00.000+08:00

What men should know about women

Diapers are NOT just a woman's job.

Don't assume PMS is the cause for every bad mood. Don't assume PMS doesn't exist.

Don't tell her you love her if you don't. Tell her you love her if you do. Often.

With a woman involved....never assume. ASK

Men have an uncanny ability to look deeply into a woman's eyes and connect with her heart, even when we don't want them to.

No matter what you say or do not say in an argument with a woman, you're in trouble. Be careful how you respond.

When a woman talks to you about things, try to understand they are not always looking for a solution, sometimes they just want to talk.

Grunting is NOT an acceptable response to a question.

Being warm, gentle and loving, and romantic, even shy is not an unmasculine thing.

A woman needs to be treated with love, respect and admiration as well. Women need to be cherished and treasured.

A woman is just as capable of fixing a car, faulty plumbing or electrical wiring as you are, they just like it better if you do it.

Women love being told they are loved and cherished.

Women are not as impressed with your cool car as you are, but they do love seeing the little boy within peeking out in his desire to please and impress a woman.

Housework should be shared.

Don't expect a woman to clean up after you fixed the meal, unless you are ready to do the same every night when she cooks.

A woman works just as hard for her money as you do.

The heart and arms of a woman who truly deeply loves you is the best place to be.

Appreciate women.

Flowers are always a good choice, especially roses.

Intelligence in a woman does not mean she is ugly or fat. Likewise being attractive or being endowed with a large chest does not indicate ignorance.

A woman making more money than you do does not lessen you as a man.

There is nothing wrong with a man who is a "house husband". It's his choice. He still likes football, sports, whatever. It doesn't lessen your value or his as a man.

If you say you're going to call,CALL If you tell her you're going to write...DO IT If you're going to be away for a day or two, let her know. Never be too busy to at least let your lady know when you might be gone for a while. Being dependable and keeping your word to a woman means more than you know.(Ladies same rules applies to you too. Men like a woman they can count on.)

Romancing a woman/man does not end with marriage, a relationship or living together. Keeping a relationship alive means doing the little things on occasion to let him/her know he/she is still special to you.

understandin man & woman

2004-12-03T09:19:00.000+08:00

Understanding Men and Women

The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is that men don’t listen. Ladies, when you talk to a man about what troubles you, it isn't that he isn't sympathetic or uncaring, but truly they don't always understand a woman and her views. There is nothing wrong in that, women are complicated and see things in varying shades and degrees. There are pinks, blues, reds etc. A man sees things simply....black white and grey. They have a tendency to be bewildered by women and our need for talking. If he offers a solution, we don't like, or offers no solution or suggestion, either way, he has messed up the way the man sees it. Either weA. Reject his answer as ignorant or uncaring and/or get mad. See no response as meaning he is heartless and being a jerk and get mad.

Come on ladies, it's a catch 22 for the guys...give them a break. Whatever they do they live in fear of angering us, they get frustrated and stop trying to please us. Men are unsettled by anger from a woman, especially if he doesn't know or understand why, or has contributed to it simply by complying with our request. Let him know you are talking to him not to blame him for your problems or even get a solution, but you need to talk to someone. If you ask for his advice, accept it, LISTEN, aknowledge it and do give him credit for trying. Let him know you appreciate his input. It doesn't mean you have to take his advice. Don't tell him he "just doesn't understand" if you don't like the answer, you'll push him away. Always consider too, the best time to discuss things is NOT when he just walks in the door. And guys, don't attribute bad moods or anger to PMS. MAJOR faux pas! The correct answer to "am I getting fat?" is NO.

Women are motivated when they feel special or cherished. Women need to receive caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation, and reassurance. They need to be treasured. (So do men!) Women value love, communication, beauty and relationships A woman's sense of self is defined through their feelings and the quality of their relationships. They spend much time supporting, nurturing and helping each other. They experience fulfillment through sharing and relating. Personal expression, in clothes and feelings, is very important. Communication is important. Talking, sharing and relating is how a woman feels good about herself. For women, offering help is not a sign of weakness but a sign of strength; it is a sign of caring to give support. Women are very concerned about issues relating to physical attractiveness; changes in this area can be as difficult for women as changes in a man's financial status. When men are preoccupied with work or money, women interpret it as rejection.

The most frequently expressed complaint men have about women is that women are always trying to change them. This need a lot of women have to "mold" him into something confuses men. This is why we have furniture to move around and cosmetics and hairstyles to change. When a woman loves a man she feels responsible to assist him in growing and tries to help him improve the way he does things. He's a MAN, he does things a man's way. She thinks she is helping or nurturing him, while he feels he’s being controlled, manipulated and unaccepted. He'll dig his feet in and refuse to change in any way. Even if your way is better, let HIM figure that out himself. Wait for him to ask.

Men take a great deal of pride in doing for themselves. If he was good enough to date, you fell in love with him the way he is, why in the world would you WANT to change him? He's not broken, so don't fix him. If he asks, he wants to do something to make a change, he wants a woman's acceptance. If he ASKS you directly how to change or improve, suggest it to him in a loving, caring way. Don't belittle him, put him down, or demand. All you accomplish there is thwarting his desire to grow or change. Men need to feel in control, so let him HAVE the remote!

A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results, through success and accomplishment, achieve goals and prove his competence and feel good about himself. To feel good about himself, men must achieve goals by themselves. For men, doing things by themselves is a symbol of efficiency, power and competence. In general, men are more interested in objects and things rather than people and feelings. Men rarely talk about their problems unless they are seeking "expert" advice; asking for help when you can do something yourself is a sign of weakness. Men are more aggressive than women; more combative and territorial. Men's self esteem is more career-related.

Men feel devastated by failure and financial setbacks; they tend to obsess about money much more than women Men hate to ask for information because to them it shows they are a failure Men need to receive trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, encouragement. Men are motivated when they feel needed. A man's deepest fear is that he is not good enough or not competent enough, he cannot provide or is in some other way not as good as he would like to be, though he may never express this. For a man not to feel needed, loved, and admired is slow death for a man.

Languages Of Love

2004-12-03T09:07:00.000+08:00

I love you
English

Je t'aime
French

Te amo
Spanish

Ich liebe dich
German

Ani ohev otakh
Hebrew

Techihila
Sioux (Native American)

Ai shite imasu
Japanese

Ti amo
Italian

Ya lyublyu tyebya
Russian

Wo ai ni
Chinese

S'agapo
Greek

Em yeu anh
Viet-Namese

Koi muk jao
Laotian

Eu te amo
Portuguese

2nd Dec 04

2004-12-02T02:16:00.000+08:00

my kaki's away msg.. meaningful horz.. =)

YoU cAn'T mAkE sOmEoNe LoVe YoU, aLL YoU cAn Do iS Be SoMeOnE wHo CaN bE lOvEd, ThE rEsT iS uP tO tHe PeRsOn To ReALizE yOuR wOrTh.

~* WeLcOmE aLL *~

2004-12-01T00:00:00.000+08:00

welcome all to the opening ceremony of http://nice-quotes.blogspot.com =D
i am the owner of this sweet lil bloggie.. will be bringing to u all lots of nice meaningful quotes.. hope u all like it..

my own blog ish at de following.. http://mimosa.blogdrive.com =D do take a look.. quizzes are posted often there.. plus some stories and songs.. some of which i penned them myself.. hehe..

n also todae happens to be my mei jesslin's bdae. here's wishing my mei a beri happy 21st bdae.. may all de best wif her..
dis is a quote frm her for this blog's opening..

There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved.

and following ish a story dat i would like to share wif u all.. hope u all like it..

Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived.
Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all the others, including Love.
One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean.

So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave.
Love was the only one that stayed.
She wanted to be with the island until the last possible moment.
When the island was almost totally under, Love decided it was time to leave.

She began looking for someone to ask for help.
Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat.
Love asked, "Richness, Can I come with you on your boat?"
Richness answered, "I'm sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold on my boat.
There would be no room for you anywhere."
Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing in a beautiful vessel.
Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please."
"I can't help you," Vanity said.
"You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat."

Next, Love saw Sadness passing by.
Love said, "Sadness, please let me go with you."
Sadness answered, "Love, I'm sorry, I need to be alone now."
Then, Love saw Happiness.
Love cried out, "Happiness, please take me with you."
But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn't hear Love calling to him.

Love began to cry.
Then, she heard a voice say,
"Come Love , I will take you with me."
It was an elder.
Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name.
When they arrived on land the elder went on his way.

Love realized how much she owed the elder.
Love then found Knowledge and asked,
"Who was it that helped me?"
"It was Time," Knowledge answered.
"But why did Time help me when no one else would?" Love asked.
Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity answered..

"Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."

~* NiCe QuOtEs *~

Missed Quoting ! Here I Am ! For 2007 ~

dis may seems nothin.. but its impt to me..

~* Love *~

Li.Bu.Kai.Ta

missin u..

edited frm a sad guy's words..

frm pris mei.. n her broken angmoh.. (edited by me) :X

found this frm 1 of my old blog..

frm meaningful posters..

hmmmmm *smiles*

many many quotes !!

frm jess mei's frnster..

finally back.. =) hope my comp behaves now..

saw frm someone's frenster..

still love u..

sTiLL LoViN u.. DeDi tO yA oN DiS sAd dAe..

wad's love ??

frm a drama..

thks to malted candy who tagged..

esp dedicated to him..

a fren's quit msg..

Lyrics : Shi Wen Bin - Wang Bu Liao

sori so long nv blog.. =)

Happy Vdae To All !! =)

7th dae of breakin up..

serene baby's away msg.. super sweet worz..

pris mei's..

pris mei's

22nd..

mine..

mine..

mine..

pris mei's..

mine..

mine..

mine..

a sad one frm pris mei..

mine..

mine..

sweetie's channel topic..

frm mei to lil cutie.. wif love.. =)

mine..

mine..

mine..

mine..

Happy New Year To All Friends..

From Jamie Gugu's Bloggie

From Keith's frenster acct

frm a bt site.. someone's siggy..

frm xh's fren's frenster acct

frm pris mei's bloggie.. meaningful..

a poem i wrote myself..

quote frm pris mei

saw frm a t-shirt in a shop in j8

frm sha dan..

frm jess mei's bloggie skin..

meaningful..

frm muiz's bloggie..

boiboi's # topic..

mia...

My Sassy Girl - 10 Rules

Love Quotes..

things for both genders to keep in mind..

wad woman should noe abt man

wad man should noe abt woman

understandin man & woman

Languages Of Love

2nd Dec 04

~* WeLcOmE aLL *~

hmmmmm smiles